Audience Etiquette
How to be a well-mannered audience member

The key to audience etiquette is to know what is considered good manners for the type of performance you are attending. What is appropriate in one context doesn't always readily translate to another. If you go the theatre to watch a play, talking through it will upset members of the audience around you and perhaps even the cast on stage. The same applies to a musical presentation in a concert hall. However if you go to a large outdoor political rally or rock concert you'll be free to comment to your heart's content.

So what is generally accepted audience etiquette for listening to speakers?

• Arrive early. The starting time is generally the signal for the speaker to begin, not for you to be finding your seat.



• Turn all electronic gadgetry off. (Or if you must have your mobile on, set it to vibrate and make sure you're seated on the end of a row near an exit.)



• Talk if you're invited to. Sometimes a speaker will ask for comments or questions. Phrase your questions or responses respectfully and sincerely. Interjections to challenge a speaker may be appropriate in some settings and absolutely not in others. Judge it carefully.



• If you need cough drops or tissues have them ready rather than having to rummage through your bag for them.



• Remember the sound of someone chewing gum, eating or slurping on a water bottle can be disruptive to others. You may not think you're being distracting but if those around you experience your behaviour as such, you are. Consideration is the key.



• Keep private whispered conversations to a minimum.



• If you're a habitual rattler of programs, keys or coins put them out of your own way to avoid temptation.



• Remaining alert and actively listening. (Slouching, yawning and falling asleep does little for the speaker's confidence and the audience around you hate it if you snore!)



• Staying to the end of the speech or waiting for a break before leaving. (Exiting noisily or squeezing past other people trying to watch and listen is rude.)



• Showing appreciation for the effort the speaker has gone to plan, write and deliver the speech. If he makes you laugh,laugh. Clap when it's appropriate. A speaker needs your response. Your laughter, eye contact, and clapping all let him know he's doing a good job.
  However if you feel he's not performing well, it is not considered good manners to make that public knowledge. Audience etiquette follows the 'do unto others as you would have done unto you' rule.

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