Audience Etiquette
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| All speech, written or spoken, is a dead language, until it finds a willing and prepared hearer. Robert Louis Stevenson: 1850-1895, Scottish Essayist, Poet, Novelist |
So what is generally accepted audience etiquette for listening to speakers?
- Arrive early. The starting time is generally the signal for the speaker to begin, not for you to be finding your seat.
- Turn all electronic gadgetry off. (Or if you must have your mobile on, set it to vibrate and make sure you're seated on the end of a row near an exit.)
- Talk if you're invited to. Sometimes a speaker will ask for comments or questions. Phrase your questions or responses respectfully and sincerely. Interjections to challenge a speaker may be appropriate in some settings and absolutely not in others. Judge it carefully.
- If you need cough drops or tissues have them ready rather than having to rummage through your bag for them.
- Remember the sound of someone chewing gum, eating or slurping on a water bottle can be disruptive to others. You may not think you're being distracting but if those around you experience your behaviour as such, you are. Consideration is the key.
- Keep private whispered conversations to a minimum.
- If you're a habitual rattler of programs, keys or coins put them out of your own way to avoid temptation.
- Remaining alert and actively listening. (Slouching, yawning and falling asleep does little for the speaker's confidence and the audience around you hate it if you snore!)
- Staying to the end of the speech or waiting for a break before leaving. (Exiting noisily or squeezing past other people trying to watch and listen is rude.)
- Showing appreciation for the effort the speaker has gone to plan, write and deliver the speech. If he makes you laugh,laugh. Clap when it's appropriate. A speaker needs your response. Your laughter, eye contact, and clapping all let him know he's doing a good job.
However if you feel he's not performing well, it is not considered good manners to make that public knowledge. Audience etiquette follows the 'do unto others as you would have done unto you' rule.
for everybody who has been, or might be, 'called on to say a few words' and wants to get them right. |
There was an older woman and her friend sharing a bag of peppermints through a violin concerto. They unwrapped them in loud slow motion oblivious to the glares from those near by.
Yet another occurred at a play. A cell phone rang. It was answered and a conversation began. The lead actress stopped the play, left the stage, and reappeared in the aisle scanning the audience. Having found her man, she escorted him and his phone, amid cheers and clapping, to the exit.
Good audience etiquette let's everyone do what they came to do, listen to the speaker.
If you sincerely don't know what the expected audience eitquette is for a particular type of public performance, ask someone who's got the experience to tell you. While you're at the event carefully observe the behaviour around you. Take the best as a model for yourself and let everyone...
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